It's all so frustrating

 I've mentioned before that husband has a big appetite, he likes 3 good meals a day, plus snacks in between, he's a committed carnivore and will eat almost anything.  By comparison, I have a quite limited diet - my own choice, I prefer simple mostly veggie meals with some fish.  I will occasionally (about once or twice a month) eat a little bit of chicken or a couple of chipolatas.  I don't always eat breakfast...for lunches, unless I've made something specific like a roast veg quiche or a veg frittata, we generally get our own lunches.  I have something like cheese and crackers with some fruit, or a bowl of soup and slice of sourdough toast.....husband prefers something more substantial like eggs and beans on toast with fried tomatoes, or bowl of soup with a couple of sandwiches.  He always eats breakfast, 2 or 3 slices of toast with cheese or banana, or cereal with sliced banana followed by toast.  I do a cooked meal in the evening, generally some sort of stew or mince for husband (or pork loin chops or steak, which he cooks himself whilst I do the accompanying veg).  I have something lighter and smaller, like a jacket spud with beans & cheese plus a side salad, or garlic & herb mushrooms on sourdough toast.

Bearing in mind that I have a much more limited diet than husband, I usually buy things for me that I really like - such as soups for when I'm not in the mood for making my own, fish pastes to have on crackers, cheeses that I really like (I like all cheese actually), nuts that I like - cashews and almonds.  I do also buy the equivalent things that husband prefers, such as meaty soups, meat pastes, walnuts and brazils which I don't like.

This morning I fancied breakfast, a slice of toast with salmon paste (there was an open jar in the fridge which needed using up)....only to find that husband had eaten my salmon paste, leaving his own ham and beef one in the fridge, he claimed he hadn't noticed!  This isn't an isolated incident, him eating my stuff happens regularly - over the past couple of weeks he's had both my Broccoli & Stilton and Tomato & Basil soups, the last of my cashew nuts, the blue Dolcelatte cheese (which he claims he doesn't like!) which I was planning to have melted into mushrooms for my tea tonight.  Plus one of my Linda McCartney mozzarella veggie burgers, rather than his own beef ones (again he claimed he didn't notice, which I find hard to believe).  

He can - and does - eat anything, whilst I won't eat most of what he eats.  It's so frustrating, he always claims he didn't realise it was mine or that I wouldn't mind - he never asks first, just assumes.  I know that he sometimes probably genuinely gets things (like the salmon paste and his ham & beef one) mixed up because he doesn't read the labels, but that doesn't excuse him eating my cashew nuts simply because he's finished his own walnuts, or my Dolcelatte cheese which he professes not to like.  Again, it's only a relatively small thing, but it sometimes feels like I'm not allowed anything of my own.