Our elderly neighbour died yesterday, very peacefully and with all his family around him. We are saddened, but it was a blessing for him as he was previously a vital, active man who loved his garden and enjoyed days out and life in general, but his last few months when his health stopped him doing everything he loved were so awful for him, he hated it. It must be a release/relief for his wife, who hated seeing him suffering and whose life over the past months revolved solely around him and his needs, she had no life of her own and had to give up all the things she did previously to care for him, which she did willingly.
To counter that, the good things are that my wee test results are (finally) back...the test is clear/normal, so that's a relief. I read it online this morning, no doubt the GP will confirm it on Monday.
And I'm going up to the Midlands to see my Mum on Wednesday, my brother will be picking me up and taking me. Mum has said she'd like to go out for lunch, if she feels well enough on the day, which will be nice.
Thank you for all the suggestions for coping with the workmen's noise - I think I shall play my music as loudly as I like! Hazel, you asked if it would be an idea for me to go and stay with my mum or sister - sadly, it's not possible.
I sympathise with you over the workmen. We once had the whole back of the house removed and replaced due to subsidence and lived in our lounge for 13 weeks. It was hell.
ReplyDeleteLooks like things are looking up for you now, let's hope it continues.
Briony
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Sad about your neighbour but a blessing too. Hope you find your mum well enough to go out for lunch.
ReplyDeleteGreat news about the tests - that is one less worry off the list. x
Sad about neighbor-enjoy visit with your mother! Love your food blog too!!!
ReplyDeleteSuch sad news about your neighbour.....and then great news about your results. Life sure is a roller coaster.
ReplyDeleteHope your Mum is able to go out for lunch on Wednesday.
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i hope that your day out is absolutely lovely and that your Mum is feeling good.
ReplyDeleteGood news about your results. Enjoy being with your mum.
ReplyDeleteGlad the results are normal.
ReplyDeleteI am saddened about your neighbour and feeling for his wife. I hope she will be able to pick up the dropped threads of her life and move on again, albeit in a different context.
ReplyDeleteBut I'm thrilled about your test results - phew, a great weight off your mind, I am sure.
Loud music sounds like a good idea to me too.
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So good to hear that the test results are normal, such a relief for you.
ReplyDeleteSad news about your neighbour but it sounds as if you were all very friendly and his wife will have you to talk to.
Best wishes for an enjoyable meal out with your mum.
So sorry for the loss of your neighbour. Sending hugs and good vibes
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