The nasty comment on my blog post came from an anonymous poster (of course it did! Comments like that are always from people who don't have blogs of their own, presumably because a) they're cowards, and b) they don't have anything interesting in their lives to write about. Not that my life is particularly interesting, it's just my life). She/he/they, however, did put a name at the end of their spiteful comment, perhaps because they hoped I'd publish it, having previously said that I will only publish anonymous comments if the poster puts a name at the end. They called themselves 'Deborah' - who this is or whether that's their real name I have no idea, they've not commented before, to my knowledge, seems something about my post irritated them enough for them to crawl out of the woodwork.
They basically said that my health problems are nothing compared to husband's - how would they know? I don't even know that myself yet, as I'm currently undergoing tests. And, as I've mentioned, I don't write everything on my blog - why would I tell the world everything about me? I may be blonde but am not stupid. They also said husband actually does a lot for me (again, how would they know? Do they live with us?) and does all the garden....he doesn't, actually, although the veg garden is mostly his domain, although I do all the planning for what we're going to grow and where, work out the crop rotation, and help with the planting, pruning and harvesting. And the front flower garden is my domain.
And then their last sentence....they said I should find more ways of helping my husband. And that just proves they know absolutely nothing about me. Family and friends know just how much I do for my husband, and you know what? It's absolutely sod all to do with anyone else.
Somebody said that I'm lucky to have my husband - yes I am, he is my soulmate, my best friend, I've always said that and I couldn't ever imagine life without him. But he is also bloody lucky to have me, and freely admits it.
I don't know if I will blog again, right now I really don't have the energy to do it regularly, nor the frame of mind. But, 'Deborah', don't waste your breath (or fingers) making any more comments, because you won't be published and I won't waste any more time on some spiteful little nobody who doesn't even know me.