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Saturday, 19 July 2025

Doing my head in, and puppies. *Edited

 It's good how communities pull together following something dreadful happening, isn't it - especially if there are children involved in the terrible event.  Our local FB page is full of people offering help to the families of those still in hospital (the 2 big hospitals where the casualties were taken are both quite a distance away from here....one of the disadvantages of living here, no big general hospital nearby).  A JustGiving fund has also been set up, local taxi firms are offering free transportation for families to visit the hospitals, toys have been offered, someone is even offering kittens free to children who were involved in the bus crash.  The middle school has row upon row of flowers and teddies placed outside.

I've woken up with a tension headache this morning, it's manifesting in tense muscles in my neck and a throbbing pain behind my left eyebrow and in my scalp.  I expect it's from the events of this week - it's been a frustrating and brain-tiring week.  Following on from my reader Happy Introvert's comments about 'overlapping payments' (which I'd never heard of), whilst googling about that, I came across something called 'underlying entitlement to Carers Allowance'.  It seems to be saying that, although the CA will be stopped upon receipt of State Pension, if the carer is still a carer (why wouldn't we be?) then they may be eligible for an extra payment or entitlement to other benefits.  I stopped reading as it was all getting too confusing, but will carry on next week when hopefully my head will be a bit clearer.  Why don't 'they' (the DWP or the Gov.) simply give everyone whatever they're entitled to, rather than people having to go to the bother of finding out themselves?  Of course, we all know why, if we're cynical enough - if we don't know about things like that, and then don't realise that we have to actually claim for them, then the powers that be won't have to actually pay us!

I know the Gov is struggling to make ends meet (aren't we all?!), but hey, come on, we're not all Old Etonian hereditary millionaires who get given clothes and free holidays and can claim living and housing expenses for their 2nd homes.  Some of us (ordinary people) actually need whatever benefits we are actually entitled to.

Enough of that, I need a quiet restful weekend.

My sister has just got a puppy, a 12 week old Maltipoo - Maltese mother and Toy Poodle father, he's a tiny very fluffy little thing.  She loves him to bits already and I'm enjoying seeing the photos she's sending of the 'Tiny Tornado' - his nickname, his real name is Barney.  Although puppies are undeniably cute, I don't think I could cope with one now.....too much like hard work!  I'm in my bedroom typing this, Betty ran in a few minutes ago and jumped on my bed with her squeaky ball, I thought I'd have to take it off her as the squeaking was doing my head in, but she's now asleep.  Her now senior age means her play periods only last a few minutes - much like a puppy actually, sis says that Barney has numerous dog naps throughout the day and frequently falls asleep mid-play with a toy in his mouth.

*Edit

Postman's just been and I have three letters all from the DWP concerning my pension and carers allowance, my brain can't deal with them today, I've put them aside to read at a later date.  They must waste so much money and paper sending all this stuff in numerous letters on so many days. πŸ˜’

6 comments:

  1. Yes, it's heartwarming when the community comes together after such tragedies. It's just such a shame that they have to.
    I don't think (well I know) that I could cope with a puppy or kitten now. After the last of our 2 beloved cats had to be euthanised, we vowed never again. We just couldn't cope with that final visit to the vet again. We have our next-door neighbour's 3 cats, who treat our house as their holiday home. They come in, have a bit of a fuss made of them, sneak upstairs for a sleep, then go home. We can cope with that!
    I'm a cynic, too, when it comes to Government benefits. I'm sure they a) keep quiet about what you can claim and/or b) make it so complicated to actually claim, that many people don't bother. Surely not!😲
    Anyway, I hope you make sense of it all and discover some money you can claim. Maybe a visit/phone call to Citizen's Advice or Age UK is needed. They'll be dealing with these things on a daily basis and will know the ins and outs! xx

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  2. How lovely for your sister a little ball of fluff, a new puppy.. I'd love another dog, but we decided getting older was hard enough without a bundle of energy to look after too! How old is Betty now?

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    1. She'll be 9 in October, Chris. Average life span for her 2 breeds is 8-12 years. The pet insurance we have jumped this year as according to them she's now in the Senior category.

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  3. I can't help feeling that if the various subsidies and benefits went only to those like you that are genuinely entitled to them, and improvements were made in administrative efficiency, there would be adequate money to go round and they wouldn't have to try to bamboozle people! If you need a bit of help with figuring out the Government-speak, Age UK has an 0800 helpline which I've found very helpful.

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  4. I hope you can make heads of what you are entitled to from the government. How nice for your sister to get a puppy to keep her company.

    God bless.

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  5. I love those little fluffy dogs. Cute beyond words.

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