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Wednesday, 12 July 2023

More waiting and patience required

 The new list of available housing is out today, I've already looked and there's just one suitable property, for which I've put in a bid.  It's a very pretty cul de sac, in a suitable area, but there's no individual parking and only 3 parking spaces to serve 6 bungalows, so that may be a problem.  It looks as though the garden is tiny too, which isn't great.  But if we're offered it, we will at least go and have a look.  Last week there were 3 suitable properties, all of which I bid for, so another wait to hear.  Husband is getting increasingly frustrated over the waiting times, he keeps asking me if there's anything we can do to speed things up....the short answer is no, nothing.  We just have to be patient.  Same goes for hearing from the psychologist.

I did next to nothing yesterday as my back and left hip are really painful at the moment - have been since husband's memory assessment last week, sitting in a hard upright chair at a table for 2.5 hours made my back and hips really sore and they've not yet recovered.  I sorted a washload out, went and had my hair cut (hairdresser lives just 2 doors away, fortunately), did some menu plans and cooked dinner, and that was about it.  I've got to go for an eye examination this morning, I have a minor problem with my right eye - well, I hope it's minor.  At the moment I'm half blind, half deaf and partly crippled, so am feeling pretty useless.  But that's life, there are millions of people worse off.  Keeping busy will help to take my mind off the pain.....this is what I tell husband too, he needs to find things to do to occupy himself, rather than just sitting brooding.

The blimmin opticians sent me an email yesterday morning, and a text about half an hour later, and then followed that up with a phone call in the afternoon, all reminding me about the appointment this morning.  Talk about overkill.  I guess they must have had loads of no shows.

The forecast is for a mixture of sun and showers with fairly gusty winds pretty much every day for the next week, so putting washing out will be a bit hit and miss.

10 comments:

  1. Oh gawd ... I think we are all starting to fall apart. :-(

    Yes, for my dental appointment I had a grand total of 8 text and email messages for myself and Alan. I asked him if the dentist had sent his to me and not to him, but nope ... he got them all too.

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  2. Our lives have become one long session of waiting for different things, we are a nation of queuing, it's just these days we don't need to stand in a line.

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  3. Hope one of your bids come through for you soon!
    hugs
    Donna

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  4. Well, at least half of you is still working! It's no fun getting older, is it? I can never understand why people don't keep appointments, or at least let the establishment know. It's just rudeness, in my opinion. I do hope one of your housing bids is successful soon. I know it'll make your lives so much easier having facilities nearby. xx

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  5. Me again, Sooze! I've just seen this on Youtube,
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=16n80OQCVSM
    and wondered if it was any help for your husband. Don't know what medication he's on, but if it's one of these, it might be worth mentioning to his GP. xx

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  6. Remind him that all his stuff will just go to the dump, if it isn't sorted to move when the time comes. ; )
    There will be no time for worrying then, he will be moving and hustling to get to the new place.
    Do any of the new places have a shed or outbuilding to store things in?

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  7. Looks like good info K sent to you. I hope it helps as well!

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  8. This getting old lark is only fun if everything works. Looking forward to hearing when you find your forever home.

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  9. The council works so, so slowly . . . patience definitely needed.
    Hoping they can sort out the eye issue. xx

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