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Monday, 21 August 2023

Scary driver (no, not husband!)

 Yesterday morning, as we'd finished our freezer food shop and were starting to drive out of the car park, we witnessed something quite scary - another driver, an elderly man, who was trying to park his small car.  There were 2 empty spaces behind his car and one in front, with kerbs and other parked cars beside them.  He couldn't seem to make up his mind whether to drive into the space in front, or reverse into one of the two behind, he shunted backwards and forwards 5 or 6 times.  We had to sit and wait whilst he did this, as he was totally blocking our route out.  The scary thing was that every single time he moved either forwards or back, he bounced up the kerbs and nearly hit the other parked cars and a fence, he just wasn't turning the wheel enough and couldn't seem to judge the angles.  Husband said he was tempted to get out and offer to park the car for him, but didn't want to embarrass the poor man.  The guy eventually managed to park in the front space, but he didn't judge it right at all and was just millimetres away from hitting the large black Audi in the next space with his front right wing, whilst mounting the kerb with his rear left wheel.  I said to husband that if he ever gets to that stage, I will personally stop him from driving again, regardless of how much it will inconvenience us.  That poor old man (in his 80s by the look of him) most certainly shouldn't be driving, he's clearly a danger.  But I guess he doesn't want to give up his independence, doesn't have anybody else to drive him around, or - worryingly - doesn't see anything wrong with his driving.  Or perhaps his eyesight is frighteningly bad! (he was wearing glasses).

Our freezers are fully stocked again now and I shouldn't need to go shopping again, except maybe for some fresh veg/fruit, for another month or so.  Incidentally, if you have a FarmFoods shop near you (it's next door to our big Iceland shop), they are selling 500g packs of Anchor spreadable butter for 99p on special offer.  I don't know how long the offer lasts though.  I bought 4 packs.  Lurpak is my preferred brand of butter, but I buy whichever one is on special offer.  Oh, and I've noticed some butter brands have quietly dropped their pack sizes to 400g down from 500g, but of course not dropped the price!  Do they think we're stupid?!

I'm glad to see that the killer nurse has been jailed for the rest of her life, with no possibility of parole.  She refused to leave her cell and appear in court, as stated by her solicitor the other day - scandalous and totally cowardly.  I can't imagine why it's even an option for convicted criminals to refuse - they give up any rights they might think they have the minute they're convicted.  I suppose one tiny bit of comfort (if there can be any) for the bereaved parents is the knowledge that she will certainly not have an easy time in prison, she'll be a target for attacks forevermore, as well as being on constant suicide watch.  

My cousin rang last night to say that the doctors have said there's nothing more they can do for my uncle, and it'll be a matter of days before he passes.  So sad.


9 comments:

  1. Sorry to hear about your uncle.
    I've noticed a lot of things are now reduced in size. Sneaky manufacturers... They must think we are stupid.

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  2. I am sorry to hear about your uncle, hopefully it will be a peaceful end.
    We get the flyers from FarmFoods through the letter box regularly, and they usually have some good offers available.

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  3. So sorry to hear about your uncle. I hope his passing is peaceful.
    There are so many people about who shouldn't be driving, and they're not all elderly. If I drove, I'd be one of them!😄
    There are calls for the sentencing and victim impact statements to be broadcast into the cells of those cowards who refuse to appear. Then, at least they couldn't escape hearing it. I suppose, if they insist on them coming into court, they could cause disruption and more trauma for the victims. A tricky situation, I'm glad I don't have to make the decision. xx

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  4. We have a resident who drives like the person you mentioned. He has no peripheral vision and so finds parking difficult. When pulling out of the car park here, he can't see either side so just hopes for the best and goes for it. He's had his licence revoked once but he went to his Dr and persuaded him/her to write to DVLA and say he was safe to drive!

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  5. I, also, am sorry about your Uncle...sad.
    I would have offered to park the man's car but he probably would have been afraid I'd steal his car...
    I really need to get to Aldi's!
    hugs
    Donna

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  6. With an increasingly elderly population and next-to-nothing bus services in many rural areas we are going to see more and more drivers like the one you witnessed.

    One of the many reasons I always park in the furthest from the door bit of a car park - I have seen older people who are desperate to park near the store entrance so they don't have to walk as far, so I try and be as far from them as possible.

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  7. Sorry to hear about your uncle. I hope his last few days are peaceful ones. x

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  8. I am sorry to read this about your uncle. Prayers for a peaceful leaving of this world.

    God bless.

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  9. So sorry to hear about your Uncle.

    We had an elderly chap in our small town who insisted on driving himself around when really he shouldn't have been, he kept going the wrong way down the one way streets causing absolute chaos and having a lot of near misses on the main A6 road. His licence was finally taken off him when he nearly killed someone in the Drs surgery carpark and his number plate was noted.

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